Lessons I learned in past few months

Hey everyone I just hope everything is going good and you all are happy and doing great.

It’s been a while since I posted anything on this blog and there are various reasons for that, now that I am in class 8, the number of assignment and notebook work has increased, so I prefer to put most of my time in that and my studies.

I have also been working on something which is going to take some years to get all finished, but I am happy I just started it already and it might just be like the best thing I have as a writer.

Something that happened in my life recently was, I was having a little trouble dealing with things around me like, getting back to offline school and you know just getting a little older than before.

I am 12 years old and this is the point everything starts to change in our lives. Now right now not talking about anything as per studies cause i have always been able to manage them right, and yeah everything is going good in those terms.

So here are some things that I learned in the past few months which I think will always help me get through all sorts of situations all my life long.

Surround yourself with the people who are good for you and who make you feel good about yourself.

Friends at this point, will come and go, but only some are always going to be there for you. Who actually love you, who are your true friends, who genuinely care about you.

So take some time to think about the people you surrounded with. If they are the right people you should be with or should not and take actions accordingly.

But one thing is this, make sure you don’t hurt somebody is feelings. If there is someone you know who you are not on with good terms or want to be a little distance with try and sort everything out and talk. That is the best thing to do in that situation.

Reach out your elders.

Parents, teachers, your guardians, talk to them. They are always going to be there for you whatsoever. Your parents are always going to find a solution to your problem what so ever it is. No matter how old you are.

Parents are going to be literally the biggest solution to your problem doesn’t matter you’re a teenager, you are in your 20’s, 30’s whatsoever. There always going to be there for you and help you out. So talk to them.

Being strict is is important at times.

I know we all have hard those times when our parents don’t allow us to do something aur probably say no to us for something and we just get upset.

But when you think about it it’s important for them to be strict for some certain things. If they are strict there is a reason. They have also been through all theis stuff, amd they know what is right and wrong for you. They will always love you no matter what.

Learn to care a little less for certain things.

There’s going to be a lot of stuff around when you’re in school. Gossip, rumours THIS, THAT, THESE, THOSE, A WHOLE LOT OF STUFF. There was a time where I was fed up of all the stuff and it was really hard for me to deal with all this.

So what you are going to simply do is, STOP CARING ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE ARE TALKING.

Also just people are always going to say to loads of things.

You don’t know if there something, wrong happening when someone can get you involved in all of that. Trust me. Don’t get into all this. Be aware about what is happening around you, don’t get deep into it, if you get what i mean. But most importantly,

Just be who you are, and love yourself.


11 Comments Add yours

  1. Aadya singh says:

    Hey dear reader! There is some problem, WordPress at my end is not responding, so there might be a lot of typos, and i really have no idea what’s written in the end. I m trying to get rid of it, so pls just ignore that, thnks!

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    1. Aadya singh says:

      Ok got it fixed. Thanks for reading!

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  2. Great life lessons! I sure wish I learned them when I was your age… But well, better late than never

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    1. Aadya singh says:

      Thank you!! (◕ᴗ◕✿)

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  3. Aadya very much relatable

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  4. Dishita says:

    The level of maturity you hold while penning this down is so beyond your age and yet so beautiful! 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Aadya singh says:

      Thank you soo much mam!

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      1. Dishita says:

        Just Dishita for you! 🙂

        Liked by 1 person

      2. Aadya singh says:

        Oh ok! Cool!
        Btw how are you doing these days?

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      3. Dishita says:

        Doing well! Hope you are good too Aadya! 🙂

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